ਛੋਟੀ ਦੀ ਤਿਆਰੀ ਜਾਂ ਲੰਬੀ ਦੀ ਤਿਆਰੀ । Prepation for the short or preparation for the long

 

ੴ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥ ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ ਬਾਣੀ ਸ੍ਰੀ ਕਬੀਰ ਜੀਉ ਤਥਾ ਸਭਨਾ ਭਗਤਾ ਕੀ ॥ ਕਬੀਰ ਕੇ ॥   

ਅਵਤਰਿ ਆਇ ਕਹਾ ਤੁਮ ਕੀਨਾ ॥
avatar aae kahaa tum keenaa ||
Since your birth, what have you done?

ਰਾਮ ਕੋ ਨਾਮੁ ਨ ਕਬਹੂ ਲੀਨਾ ॥੧॥
raam ko naam na kab’hoo leenaa ||1||
You have never even chanted the Name of the Lord. ||1|| .

ਰਾਮ ਨ ਜਪਹੁ ਕਵਨ ਮਤਿ ਲਾਗੇ ॥
raam na jap’hu kavan mat laage ||
You have not meditated on the Lord; what thoughts are you attached to?

ਮਰਿ ਜਇਬੇ ਕਉ ਕਿਆ ਕਰਹੁ ਅਭਾਗੇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
mar jaebe kau kyaa kar’hu abhaage ||1|| rahaau ||
What preparations are you making for your death, O unfortunate one? ||1||Pause||

ਦੁਖ ਸੁਖ ਕਰਿ ਕੈ ਕੁਟੰਬੁ ਜੀਵਾਇਆ ॥
dukh sukh kar kai kuTa(n)b jeevaayaa ||
Through pain and pleasure, you have taken care of your family.

ਮਰਤੀ ਬਾਰ ਇਕਸਰ ਦੁਖੁ ਪਾਇਆ ॥੨॥
martee baar iksae dukh paayaa ||2||
But at the time of death, you shall have to endure the agony all alone. ||2||

ਕੰਠ ਗਹਨ ਤਬ ਕਰਨ ਪੁਕਾਰਾ ॥
ka(n)Th gehan tab karan pukaaraa ||
When you are seized by the neck, then you shall cry out.

ਕਹਿ ਕਬੀਰ ਆਗੇ ਤੇ ਨ ਸੰਮੑਾਰਾ ॥੩॥੧॥
keh kabeer aage te na sa(n)m(h)aaraa ||3||1||
Says Kabeer, why didn't you remember the Lord before this? ||3||1|| 

(Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji - Ang 792 - Bhagat Kabeer Ji - Raag Soohee)

Questions regarding media coverage of tragic East London stabbings

Sadly yesterday 3 Punjabi youths tragically lost their lives in a knife crime attack. According to more recent news reports, the 3 young men were part of a drunken brawl over unpaid work which led to a knife attack. Thoughts and prayers for their families who have lost such young adults to senseless violence. 

Bhai Mankamal Singh Ji has highlighted on social media that UK media outlets are inappropriately portraying this as a “Sikh gang bloodbath”. The UK mainstream media are time and again referencing to the individual’s association to the Sikh faith when they have never highlighted the faith association of hundreds of knife crime attack victims or perpetrators in the past. As a consequence of the news emphasising "Sikhs" have been involved in a gang fight and knifed to death, I immediately thought of a someone in Sikh visible identity (ie Kesdhari, wearing a Dastaar) must be involved and the knife may sadly be a Kirpan. Why else stress “Sikh” I thought? However, this was far from the truth. If I was confused and feeling this way, imagine how non-Sikhs would be feeling about Kirpans and Sikhi Saroop from such headlines?

But something for us all to think about is the recent argument being made that Sikhs should be recognised as an ethnic group and not just a religion. This has the ramifications that you can use headlines of “Sikh gang”, “Sikh criminal”, “Sikh drug-dealer” or “Sikh rapist” and get away with it by saying that you are referring to their ethnicity and not their religion. But we would all agree that the above hypothetical incidents would have nothing to do with Sikhi or represent a Sikh cause, and be very negative for the Sikh faith community who are already are under-represented in the media. 

I think where religion has no involvement in an incident, no link to the appearance of an individual, and no link to the ideology driving behind the incident, it would be more appropriate to refer to their ethnic group. Using “Punjabi” as an ethnic identity would be the more befitting than “Sikh”. I understand many Sikhs, rightly, do not identify as Indians. However, I don’t think that can lead to the conclusion that our ethnicity is Sikh. Otherwise you could have an ethnic Sikh who is an atheist or an ethnic Sikh who is a Christian. Would a Spanish or African convert to Sikhi be an “ethnic Sikh”? 

Clearly it is confusing. I agree with the sentiments but I think the way forward is to identify Punjabis separate from Indians as Punjabis have a long common history, heritage and language which connects them and ultimately most Punjabis, irrespective of faith, have adoration for Guru Nanak Sahib Ji.  

Sikh concepts such as “Panth” and “Quam” cannot be divorced from religion, unlike the term ethnicity which can exist without religious belief or observation. Can you have a “Sikh Koum” devoid of “Sikhi”? Miri-Piri (socio-politics and spirituality) are intertwined concepts in Sikhi and not separate entities.

ਲੋਕਲ ਗੁਰਮੱਤ ਕਲਾਸ ਦੇ ਬੱਚਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਮਿਲੇ ਇਨਾਮ । Prizes given to children at local Gurdwara Class

Today children at the local Gurdwara Sahib’s Sikhi class received prizes.

Five weeks before Guru Nanak Dev ji’s Gurpurb, children were given a chart (see photos 2-3) and told that each task earns points and points means prizes. After 5 weeks, their parents and grandparents requested we extend the task deadline to January to Guru Gobind Singh Ji’s Gurpurb. It is amazing that since then children have been excitingly going through the Punjabi alphabet, reciting each Guru Sahibs name, doing Gurmat Ishnaan (full body wash whilst reciting Gurbani or Simran), reciting Mool Mantar, and reading/listening to Japji Sahib, Chaupai Sahib, Rehras Sahib and Sohila Sahib everyday.

Based on their different ages, goodie bags included a set of books for children published by the SGPC for learning Sikh history, Sikh colouring books, a Saakhi book, a Simarnaa (mala), some chocolates and some children got a toy or another gift. The main theme of the gifts were to promote Sikhi learning and encourage them to carry on further. They now look forward to completing their weekly chart till Vaisakhi, when there will be another prize giving ceremony.

The parents and grandparents, who also sit in the class with their children and take an active part in the weekly class, have shown great support in getting their children to do this chart. Hopefully by sharing this, it gives Sangat in other places an idea that they can adopt to motivate children towards Gurbani and Simran.

ਬਾਬਾ ਚਰਨ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ ਕਾਰ-ਸੇਵਾ ਦੇ ਕੇਸ ਸੰਬੰਧੀ ਫੈਂਸਲਾ । Case verdict relating to Baba Charan Singh Ji Kar-sewa

Today 6 Punjab Police officers have been convicted for the abduction and murder of Baba Charan Singh Ji Kaar-seva wale and 5 of his family members in 1993.

Baba Charan Singh Ji's brutal martyrdom at the hands of Panjab Police in 1993

In Sikh history, Bhai Mati Daas Ji’s body was sawn alive into 2 pieces by the Mughals in 1675. The Indian state, no better than the Mughals, similarly shredded the body of Baba Charan Singh Ji Kaar-seva wale in 2 pieces. He was mercilessly tied to two jeeps that drove in opposite directions, resulting in Baba Ji’s body being ripped into two pieces.

One of the perpetrators, Police Inspector Suba ‘Singh’, was from Sirhind, where in December 1704 the younger Sahibzaade were bricked alive by the orders of Wazir Khan, Suba (Governor) of Sirhind. Punjab Police’s Suba Singh boasted that Sikhs will forget Suba of Sirhind (Wazir Khan) and will remember Suba Singh Sirhind instead. He was sentenced to 10 years in prison and ordered to pay a fine of Rs 30,000. When the media were taking photos of Suba Singh being taken to jail, he said with egotistical pride “take good photos.” It has taken 27 years to get this case to trial. Originally there were 15 people accused of kidnapping and murdering this family, but six of the accused died before the case reached trial. More than 25 prosecution witnesses also died before the case reached trial.

The dead bodies were never handed to the family and it has still not been disclosed what ultimately happened to them. 

Bhai Satnam Singh Ji Khande Wale, one one Panj Pyare of the Akal Takhat Amrit Sanchaars, spoke to the media... “This case still proves Sikhs will not get full justice in India. Someone who tortures and murders a whole family should receive the death penalty or at least life imprisonment. My family has not received full justice and many eye witnesses were intimidated and bought by the Police with bribes. However today’s verdict is welcomed and is very small success in the fight for justice against the Indian State for its atrocities committed against Sikhs from 1984-1995.”

ਸਵਾਲ ਜਵਾਬ: ਕੀ ਮੈਂ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਛੱਕ ਰਹਿਤ ਨਿਭਾਹ ਸਕਾਂਗਾ? । Question Answer: Will I be able to maintain Rehat after taking Amrit?

Above video is of the Q&A response provided from today's weekly Derby Sikh Q&A programme answered by Bhai Amrik Singh Ji, followed by Bhai Rajinderpal Singh Purewal Ji and then Bibi Parmjit Kaur Ji. Below is a short translation of the video response.

Question: When taking Amrit you should do properly and not half job. However, when I see people keeping full Rehat (code of conduct), I get scared that I will not be able to maintain this high standard of Rehat. How will I know that I will be able to keep Rehat after taking Amrit?

Answer: No one can keep Rehat. Satguru Ji can make us keep Rehat. 

First a child drinks its mother's milk, then teeth come, then those baby teeth fall out as the child gets older and the child's diet changes. Nature adapts us accordingly. Satguru Ji places his hand over head and holds our arm the day when we give our head (i.e. completely surrender) to Satguru Ji and receive Amrit. Satguru Ji reassures us that he will not us waver or fall.

If you do Ardaas (prayer) to the Panj Pyaare when they give you Rehat that "You have given us strict Rehat, but please bless me that I will be able to maintain and follow this." Beg for the gift of 'Bharosa' (faith) and the gift of 'Visaah' (trust). When you beg for these gifts and pray, "This Rehat is yours, you yourself will make us follow it, and you will work through my body. Please bless me." Truly, Guru Sahib blesses us.

Once a couple came to the Gurdwara and said, "We wish to have children, however we are scared that will be able to look after the child properly." Nature itself empowers the mother with the feelings and everything needed to be a mother. Similarly, when taking Amrit, you yourself will become empowered and prepared. Yes, begin with a base of be able to do Nitnem (daily prayers), waking up Amrit-Vela (before dawn) and doing Sangat of Gursikhs. Prepare the body-field in which the seed of Naam is to be sown. Gurbani says:

ਕਰਮ ਧਰਤੀ ਸਰੀਰੁ ਕਲਿਜੁਗ ਵਿਚਿ ਜੇਹਾ ਕੋ ਬੀਜੇ ਤੇਹਾ ਕੋ ਖਾਏ ॥

karam dhartee sareer kaljug vich jehaa ko beeje tehaa ko khaae.

The body is the field of action, in this Dark Age of Kaljug; as you plant, so shall you harvest.

(Gauree M:4, Ang 308)

Prepare the body-field with care and attention. Then when Satguru Ji sows the seed of Naam, then he will give the protective-fence of Rehat and ask his Sikh to plough the field (through practicing Gurbani) to ensure that birds (i.e. vikaars - corrupt thoughts and vices) do not take the seeds. This is Rehat. 

We should not stay afraid that because one thinks they will not be able to keep Rehat, they will not sow the seed of Naam. It is like saying, one does not grow wheat in the field because they get scared the birds may take aways the seeds. This is what the Sidhs (men who possessed miracles and occult powers) who living in the mountains said to Satguru Ji. Gurbani records:

ਦੁਨੀਆ ਸਾਗਰੁ ਦੁਤਰੁ ਕਹੀਐ ਕਿਉ ਕਰਿ ਪਾਈਐ ਪਾਰੋ ॥

ਚਰਪਟੁ ਬੋਲੈ ਅਉਧੂ ਨਾਨਕ ਦੇਹੁ ਸਚਾ ਬੀਚਾਰੋ ॥

duneeaa saagar dutar kehee-ai kio kar payee-ai paaro.

charpatt bolai audhoo naanak deh sachaa beechaaro. 

"(Charpatt Yogi says-) The world-ocean is treacherous and impassable; how can one cross over? O Nanak, think it over, and give us your true reply."

(Raamkalee M:1, Ang 938)

They asked Guru Nanak Dev Ji that people drown in this world-ocean, but how has he remained living in the world and saved himself? Guru Nanak Dev Ji's reply was very beautiful. 

ਜੈਸੇ ਜਲ ਮਹਿ ਕਮਲੁ ਨਿਰਾਲਮੁ ਮੁਰਗਾਈ ਨੈ ਸਾਣੇ ॥
ਸੁਰਤਿ ਸਬਦਿ ਭਵ ਸਾਗਰੁ ਤਰੀਐ ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਖਾਣੇ ॥
jaise jal mehi kamal niraalam murgaa-ee nai saane.
surat shabadh bhav saagar taree-ai naanak naam vakhaane.
Just as the lotus flower floats upon the surface of the water untouched by the dirty water, and the duck swims through the stream (without getts its feathers wet); O Nanak! (In the sae way) with one's consciousness focused on the Word of the Guru and chanting the Naam, one crosses over the terrifying world-ocean. 
(Raamkalee M:1, Ang 938)

 Guru Sahib showers his blessings. This is guaranteed. If you do Ardaas the day you take Amrit, Guru Gobind Singh Ji himself works in the Amrit Sanchaar and gives you strength. Guru Ji works miracles. No one can say I will go into the Amrit Sanchaar and come back as a perfect Gursikh. Guru Ji blesses one with such Sangat (company) then one becomes like that. Guru Ji holds our finger and take us to that point where the story of Bhai Joga Singh Ji works.

Do not delay taking Amrit because of this fear. Your time is passing. Guru Ji beautifully says:

ਰੰਗੁ ਮਾਣਿ ਲੈ ਪਿਆਰਿਆ ਜਾ ਜੋਬਨੁ ਨਉ ਹੁਲਾ ॥
ਦਿਨ ਥੋੜੜੇ ਥਕੇ ਭਇਆ ਪੁਰਾਣਾ ਚੋਲਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
rang maan lai piaari-aa jaa joban nau hulaa.
din thoRaRe thhakke bheyaa puraanaa cholaa. ||1|| rahaau ||
Dear beloved! Enjoy spiritual happiness whilst you are newly in youth. When your days are few- your body will grow weary and old (and not able to Simran). ||1||Pause||
(Siree Raag M:1, Ang 23)

Now it is your mind to take Amrit, do not be scared of Maryada (code of living). That seed of Naam is beautiful, which is given Wwhen the Panj Pyaare place their hands on your head and sow it within you. That seed itself will help you to build a wall of protection, i.e. maintain Rehat. When one has gold at home, you yourself will want to lock the house and keep it safe. When there is nothing vaulable within the house, then you can install whatever types of locks.

Take Amrit, and do not delay. Do Ardaas, day and night, and you will receive blessings. Do Ardaas that may Satguru Ji take you to those Panj Pyaare to take Amrit who they themselves are blessed-souls and follow full Rehat and that your life can become fruitful.

ਭਾਈ ਵਿਜੇ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ ਦੇ ਗ੍ਰਹਿ ਵਿਖੇ ਗੁਰਪੁਰਬ ਕੀਰਤਨ ਸਮਾਗਮ । Gurpurb Kirtan programme at Bhai Vijay Singh Ji's residence

Kirtan recordings of Bhai Pavandeep Singh (Bedford) from yesterday's house Kirtan programme in Aylesbury.

ਗੁਰੂ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ ਦੇ ਗੁਰਪੁਰਬ ਦੇ ਮੌਕੇ ਤੇ ਗੈਰ-ਸਿੱਖਾਂ ਵਾਸਤੇ ਸੁਨੇਹਾ । Message to share with non-Sikhs on Gurpurb of Guru Gobind Singh Ji

Sikh Festival:  Birthday Celebration of Tenth Sikh Guru, Guru Gobind Singh Jee

5^th January marks the celebration date for the birth of the Tenth Sikh Guru, Guru Gobind Singh Ji. Born in 1666, in the face of oppression, Guru Gobind Singh Jee challenged authoritarian rulers with his message of unity and the right for people of all faiths and beliefs to live freely without fear of persecution and discrimination.

His legacy codifying Sikhs into a uniquely visible army of Saint-Soldiers, the Khalsa, which is dedicated to the service and protection of humanity, is a reminder for us all of our responsibilities as human beings towards one another, society, and the planet. Guru Gobind Singh Jee formalised the Sikh uniform, which made all baptised or committed disciples standout as a daily reminder of their spiritual commitment to God and social commitment to be forever in service of the most vulnerable in society, regardless of who they may be.

Guru Gobind Singh Jee dedicated his entire life serving the people and fighting against injustice. He led by example and showed exemplary courage. For the sake of his mission to protect and serve humanity from oppression, his whole family was sacrificed. His father was beheaded in 1675 whilst defending the human right of people of another faith to be able to live with dignity in the midst of persecution from the authorities. His two elder sons, aged 17 and 15 bravely died in a unparallelled historic battle on 23^rd December 1704, where the Emperor of India and his supporters with an army of 1 million surrounded and attacked 42 brave Sikhs. His younger sons, aged 6 and 9, were bricked alive and attained martyrdom on 26^th December 1704 for refusing to give up their faith and give into tyranny. His elderly mother was detained with his younger sons and also attained martyrdom for refusing to give up her faith.

His teachings will continue to inspire coming generations to stand up against injustice and treat human race as one and seek to look beyond labels of religion, colour, race and gender.

ਡੈਨਿਸ਼ ਵਿੱਚ ਬੱਚੇ ਗੁਰੂ ਨਾਨਕ ਦੇਵ ਜੀ ਬਾਰੇ ਵਿਚਾਰ ਕਰਦੇ । Children discuss about Guru Nanak Dev Ji in Danish

On 8th December, I had the opportunity to talk about Guru Nanak Dev Ji during Sunday Divaan at Singh Sabha Gurdwara, Copenhagen, Denmark. The local children's Sikhi class also attended the talk. Afterwards, the children got together and were asked to recollect in Danish what they had learnt about Guru Nanak Dev Ji and had the opportunity to hear more about the life of Guru Nanak Dev Ji. The children were very well composed and focused and showed great enthusiasm to learn about Sikhi. 

ਨਿਕੀਆਂ ਜਿੰਦਾਂ ਵੱਡੇ ਸਾਕੇ | Young Souls, Great Sacrifices...

ਵੱਡੇ ਸਾਹਿਬਜ਼ਾਦਿਆਂ ਦੀ ਸ਼ਹੀਦੀ ਤੋਂ ਇਹ ਕਮਾਲ ਦਾ ਸਬਕ। Lesson from the martyrdom of the Elder Sahibzaadey...

ਜਥੇਦਾਰ ਭਾਈ ਰਘਬੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ (ਅਖੰਡ ਕੀਰਤਨੀ ਜੱਥਾ ਯੂ.ਕੇ.) ਦੇ ਅਨਮੋਲ ਬਚਨਾਂ ਦੀ ਵੀਡੀਓ । Special Documentary - Jathedar Bhai Sahib Raghbir Singh (Akhand Keertani Jatha UK)

ਜਥੇਦਾਰ ਭਾਈ ਰਘਬੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ (ਯੂ.ਕੇ.) ਦੀ ਸੰਖੇਪ ਜੀਵਨੀ । A short biography of Jathedaar Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji (UK) [Part 3]

 Continued...

(PART 3 - FINAL PART) 

 

First-ever youth Akhand Paath Sahib

From 6th to 9th November 2008, Akhand Kirtani Jatha UK organised the first ever national Sikh youth Akhand Paath Sahib (continuous non-intermittent reading of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji) at Gurdwara Singh Sabha Coventry. The Seva was co-ordinated by Bhenji Daljeet Kaur Ji and Bhai Jaspal Singh Ji from Leicester. The paatth (reading) was recited solely by the youth, in particular youth who had not done paatth in Sangat before. The Seva was carried out by around 50 Amritdhari Singhs and Singhnian from across the UK. Each person was allocated 20 Angs (respected word for pages) with an estimated time depending on the individual's ability. Individuals were given time to practise and seek help with pronunciation beforehand. Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji along with other elder Gursikhs of the Jatha like Bhai Jarnail Singh Ji (Leamington-Spa), Bhai Bhupinder Singh Ji (Coventry) etc. sat in the Sangat and listened to the entire Paatth to ensure that Gurbani was read correctly. It was amazing to hear Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji repeat lines of Gurbani without looking at the computer or any Pothi (scriptural volume) and correcting Paatthis (readers) where they unintentially made a mistake. It just shows how much abhiyaas (practice) they had of listening and reading to Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. The final Ardaas was done by Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji. During the Ardaas he became emotional and tears ran down his face. He was so emotional that at one point he struggled to speak. Bhai Sahib expressed his joy that the youth of UK were now not only able to do Kirtan, but also on their way to becoming Paathis. Perhaps he was reminded of his promise he made to his comrades of the Sikh freedom struggle that he would dedicate his life to building up the Khalsa in the West. After the bhog (completion), Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji, as the Jathedaar of Akhand Kirtani Jatha UK, gave a siropa (robe of honour) to each and every person who took part in the Seva. Bhai Sahib was a firm believer that along with Naam Simran and Kirtan, a Gursikh should read and also try to understand Gurbani.

ਹਉ ਵਾਰੀ ਜੀਉ ਵਾਰੀ ਪੜਿ ਬੁਝਿ ਮੰਨਿ ਵਸਾਵਣਿਆ ॥
I am a sacrifice, my soul is a sacrifice, to those who read of the Lord, who understand and enshrine Him within their minds.
(Maajh M:3, Ang 127)

Final meeting with Bhai Shingara Singh Ji

Bhai Shingara Singh Ji was one of the early Gursikhs of Akhand Kirtani Jatha to come to the UK. He moved to the UK in 1963 and was one the few Gursikhs at the time who kept Sarbloh Bibek (discipline of eating food cooked and served by Gursikhs in iron utensils) and wore Khalsa Bana (attire). He had brought a large Sarbloh Baattaa (bowl) and Sarbloh Khanda (double-edged sword) with him from Punjab, and arranged the first Amrit Sanchaar organised by Akhand Kirtani Jatha in the UK. Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji met Bhai Shingara Singh Ji in 1976 in an Amrit Sanchaar organised by Akhand Kirtani Jatha in Southall. Since then, they enjoyed one another's company in walking the Guru's path. Two weeks before Bhai Shingara Singh Ji left this world, he started making all his arrangements for his funeral. He took a Gursikh with him to a Sikhi shop, DTF in Birmingham, and brought all his Kakkaars to wear on his funeral day. He also brought the cloth for his Bana (dress) which he wanted to wear on his funeral, and gave his daughter the tailor's details from whom he wanted to get it sewn from. He organised the Gurdwara for his funeral and also completed a Sehaj Paath (complete reading) of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji up to Salok Mahallaa Nauvaa(n). Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji and Bhai Shingara Singh Ji were very good friends. On Wednesday 29th June 2011, Bhai Sahib went to see Bhai Shingara Singh Jee around 7pm, after Bhai Shingara Singh Ji had made a few requests for Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji to come and visit him. Their meeting lasted until 9pm that evening. The following morning after completing Amrit-Vela, Bhai Shingara Singh Ji left this world.

ਜਿਸ ਕੇ ਜੀਅ ਪਰਾਣ ਹਹਿ ਕਿਉ ਸਾਹਿਬੁ ਮਨਹੁ ਵਿਸਾਰੀਐ ॥
ਆਪਣ ਹਥੀ ਆਪਣਾ ਆਪੇ ਹੀ ਕਾਜੁ ਸਵਾਰੀਐ ॥੨੦॥
We should not forget that Lord-Master from our minds who has given us our soul and breath. (Whilst your alive,) resolve our own spiritual affairs with our your efforts. ||20||
(Aasa M:1, Ang 474)

The ability to read people's mind

There are numerous accounts of Bhai Sahib being able to read people's minds and know people's inner thoughts. Once Bhai Atma Singh Ji (Coventry) accompanied another Gursikh to Bhai Sahib's house in Leamington Spa. Whilst the other Gursikh was engaged in a conversation with Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji, Bhai Atma Singh Ji had the thought what he should do with his Lareevaar Sencheeaa (small scriptural volumes) as he can now read Gurbani on his devices. Soon as this thought came to him, Bhai Sahib stopped the conversation with the other Gursikh and looked at Bhai Atma Singh Ji, and said, "If you have Sencheeaa at home, then you should read from them!" He then casually carried on his conversation with the other Gursikh. Bhai Atma Singh Ji was left amazed how Bhai Sahib read his thoughts and gave him a timely response. During Amrit Sanchaars Bhai Sahib would know whether someone is telling the truth or lying. This is a quality that many Gursikhs in the past who did Seva in Amrit Sanchaars had. Bhai Manpreet Singh Ji (Derby) shared how someone told Jathedaar Ji that he and his wife had been refused Daat (gift) from the Panj Pyaare (the reason being they were told to wake up Amrit-Vela and keep Rehat for 6 months first). The other Gursikh asked if Jathedaar Ji could tell the Amrit Sanchaar Sevadaars to please bless them with the Guru's gift sooner. Bhai Sahib looked into Bhai Manpreet Singh Ji's eyes and said, "You still believe that you can live and make do without Naam?" Bhai Manpreet Singh Ji shared that he had in the back of his mind that he had already taken Amrit and didn't think Naam was that important, although he was going to the Panj Pyaare to ask for this gift. Bhai Sahib had read his inner thoughts and feelings. This reassured Veer Ji that Naam was important.

ਨਾਨਕ ਵਾਹੁ ਵਾਹੁ ਕਰਹਿ ਸੇ ਜਨ ਨਿਰਮਲੇ ਤ੍ਰਿਭਵਣ ਸੋਝੀ ਪਾਇ ॥੨॥
O Nanak! Those who chant the Lord's Praises 'Vaahu! Vaahu!' become pure and obtain the knowledge of the three worlds (past, present and future). ||2||
(Gujri M:5, Ang 515)

Life partner being Saadh Saangat

Mata Nirmal Kaur Ji, Singhni (wife) of Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji, would always accompany Bhai Sahib when going abroad for Seva or attending Keertan programmes. Mata Nirmal Kaur Ji said to me, "I am so lucky that I was married to Jathedaar Ji. I passed my life with great peace and pleasure. I never had a bad moment with him." Mata Ji said that she never had argument with Bhai Sahib but then she said, "We actually would only have arguments over one topic." She said, "That one topic was... who would wake up Amrit-Vela first." Mata Ji shared that if she woke up at 12am and got in the bathroom first, Jathedaar Ji would call out, "It's my turn first. Have a shower after me." This is the enthusiasm and thirst Bhai Sahib had for Amrit-Vela. Sometimes Mata Ji would wake up 11.45pm so she could get her shower first and sit down first for Simran. She said she would quietly get up and try to enter the bathroom but Bhai Sahib would say from the bedroom, "I can hear you! You know after so many years that its my turn first for a shower and then yours." Both Bhai Sahib and Mata Ji would wake up 12am and sit together to do Naam Abhiaas. After Naam Abhiaas they would recite Nitnem Banis together and then read Sehaj Paath together. Bhai Sahib's Ji's Nitnem included reciting Panj Granthi. They would then take time to do a Sehaj Paath, where one would read the Sehaj Paath from Guru Granth Sahib Ji's Lareevaar Saroop and the other would read the translations of the Paath read from a a Steek Senchee (translation volume) written by Giani Harbans Singh. Every day at 11am they would sit together to watch Kathaa on TV and then discuss what they had learnt. A true couple which personified Gurbani's message of making one's family into Saadh Sangat, the True Company.

ਧੰਨੁ ਸੁ ਥਾਨੁ ਬਸੰਤ ਧੰਨੁ ਜਹ ਜਪੀਐ ਨਾਮੁ ॥
ਕਥਾ ਕੀਰਤਨੁ ਹਰਿ ਅਤਿ ਘਨਾ ਸੁਖ ਸਹਜ ਬਿਸ੍ਰਾਮੁ ॥੩॥
Blessed is that place, and blessed are those who dwell there, where they chant the Naam, the Name of the Lord. The place where the Sermon and the Praises of the Lord take place very often, becomes full of peace and tranquility. ||3||
(Bilaaval M:5, Ang 816)

Love for Gurbani

Bhai Sahib was blessed with being able to memorise a lot of Gurbani. To the point that he could sit in an Akhand Paath and correct the Paathis without looking. Bhai Sahib shared that he memorised Gurbani by writing it down on cards. He would keep these cards with him and refer to them everytime he forgot a line. Whilst driving trucks, Bhai Sahib would put small cards with Gurbani written on them on the dash board and whilst driving he would keep reciting a Shabad over and over again. In this way, he learnt many Banis and many Shabads. Truly, Gurbani was Bhai Sahib's life. Bhai Sahib stressed the importance to memorise Nitnem. Once Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji along with Bhai Rama Singh Ji and other Gursikhs travelled to Thailand to spread the message of Sikhi. On the return flight, there were quite a few Gursikhs together in the plane. Suddenly, Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji, who knew Bani by heart, started the Nitnem. Everyone listened to the Paatth of the Five Banis, One Singh looked at the time and asked, "Bhai Sahib, why did you start the Nitnem so early?" The England time at the time was 3am. In this way, due to force of habit, Bani is timed and recorded in the minds of Gursikhs and the Paatth starts automatically. Bhai Sahib also put equal stress on learning the correct pronunciation and meanings of Gurbani. Once at the Derby Vaisakhi Smaagam, the youth were reciting Nitnem in Sangat at Amrit-Vela. Bhai Sahib spoke to Bhai Hardip Singh Ji from Slough afterwards and said, "Today the youngsters reading Nitnem made so many mistakes. With such incorrect proncunciations how do they expect Gurbani to wash away the filth of their vikaars (corrupt thoughts)? Gurbani is very powerful in cleansing the mind, however only if one reads it correctly."

ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਬਾਣੀ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪੂਰੇ ਕੀ ਜਿਸੁ ਕਿਰਪਾਲੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਤਿਸੁ ਰਿਦੈ ਵਸੇਹਾ ॥
The spiritual-life giving Bani (Word) of the Perfect True Guru dwells in the heart of one who is blessed by the Guru's Mercy.
(Raamkalee M:5, Ang 961)

Departing for the Guru's Abode

Bhai Sahib became physically weak and was admitted into his hospital in mid-November 2019. In hospital hundreds of Gursikhs from across the country came to give their respects to Bhai Sahib. It came to a stage that the hospital had to say no to visitors. During Bhai Sahib's last days, he was still committed to his Rehat of waking up 12am for Naam Abhiaas and only ate home-made food. Mata Nirmal Kaur Ji stayed with Bhai Sahib in the hospital room and together would do Nitnem. A day or so before leaving this world, Bhai Sahib began to talk about the Shaheed Singhs (martyrs) of 1984 and the Sikh freedom struggle. It was as if each Shaheed Singh whom Bhai Sahib had done Sangat with was coming to visit him one by one, and as they appeared to Bhai Sahib, he would begin talking about them. Bhai Sahib shared visions of Sachkhand and how beautiful it is with the Gursikhs in his hospital room. Whilst Benti Chaupai Sahib was being recited, Bhai Sahib commented that it was raining. When the Gursikhs said that it wasn't raining, he replied that it was pouring down with Guru's blessings. On Tuesday 19th November 2019, Bhai Sahib was induced into coma. During coma, a patient cannot move or speak and is put to sleep. However, before Bhai Sahib breathed his last, he spoke twice in a loud voice, "Vahiguru..., Vahiguru....". It is amazing that those who are not in coma and seem fully aware, struggle to say Vahiguru's Name, however a Gurmukh in coma can still speak Vahiguru's Name. Bhai Sahib will be remembered as role model saint-soldier and beloved Gurmukh.

ਚਲਿਆ ਪਤਿ ਸਿਉ ਜਨਮੁ ਸਵਾਰਿ ਵਾਜਾ ਵਾਇਸੀ ॥
Such a mortal departs with honour and respect; their life is beautified and redeemed, and the heavenly trumpets resound with their glory.
(Soohee M:1, Ang 730) 

ਜਥੇਦਾਰ ਭਾਈ ਰਘਬੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ (ਯੂ.ਕੇ.) ਦੀ ਸੰਖੇਪ ਜੀਵਨੀ । A short biography of Jathedaar Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji (UK) [Part 2]

 Continued...

(PART 2)

 

Financially helping Gursikhs

The Rehatnama (code of conduct) scribed by Bhai Desa Singh Ji (p. 130), records the Hukam (command) of Guru Gobind Singh Ji as: ਆਪ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੋ ਰਾਜਾ ਹੋਈ । ਨਿਰਧਨ ਸਿੰਘਨ ਪਾਲੈ ਸੋਈ ।੪੦। (“If one Sikh is well off, they should try to help other Sikhs who are less fortunate.”). Bhai Sahib Ji lived up to this. He had no attachment to money. Every time Bhai Sahib or Mata Ji heard of a Gursikh was buying a house, they would offer financial support without any expectations for being paid back or charging interest. They would even help non-Amritdharis where needed. They helped others with unconditional love. They could not tolerate to see another Gursikh financially struggle. If a Gursikh was able to financially stand on their feet, he or she could help other Gursikhs and help Sikh causes financially. Once, Bhai Sahib came to know that a Gursikh doing Seva was only working in the household. On top of this, this Gursikh was doing Seva of the Sangat but would not ask for money. After visiting the family, Mata Ji discreetly handed over a sum of money to the family and said "this is for you and to contribute towards the costs of your home." The family member receiving said, "This is not necessary Mata Ji." However, Mata Ji insisted that Bhai Sahib had asked for it to be given. However, truly the family appreciated how the Guru works through his Gursikhs to get through hardships and ensure no shortcomings come in serving the Sangat and doing Seva.

ਬਿਲਛਿ ਬਿਨੋਦ ਆਨੰਦ ਸੁਖ ਮਾਣਹੁ ਖਾਇ ਜੀਵਹੁ ਸਿਖ ਪਰਵਾਰ ॥੧॥

O Sikhs and brethren! Revel in it, delight in it, be happy and enjoy peace, and live long. ||1||

(Sorath M:5, Ang 618)

Memorising Gurbani

In 1989 Bhai Sahib went on a world trip for 5 weeks with Bhai Rama Singh Ji (Southall), Bhai Jarnail Singh Ji (Leamington Spa) and other Gursikhs from Akhand Kirtani Jatha UK for the purpose of spreading the message of Sikhi. They travelled from UK to Singapore, then Australia and New Zealand. From there they travelled to North America. During their trip to Canada they were returning back to Vancouver from a Kirtan programme held in Calgary with a Jatha (group) of 12 Singhs led by Bhai Malkit Singh Ji. It was journey of 12 or 13 hours at night.  Bhai Sahib Ji was reciting Gurbani aloud. An elderly person looked back to see if a cassette player was on, as he was wondering who was doing Paath in the darkness at night. He was suprised that there was no light, so who was reciting Bani for three or four hours non-stop. Bhai Sahib told the elderly person, "By the Grace of the Guru I had been able to memorise a lot of Bani. When I was young, I was very keen on wrestling. Seeing my interest, my father bought a sack of almonds as part of my strength building diet." Bhai Sahib believed that along with the Guru's Grace, the diet of almonds had helped his memory power. Singhs of the Akhand Kirtani Jatha had the minimum expectation that Singhs and Singhnian (Sikh men and women) would have memorised their Nitnem Banis (daily prayers). Those who were able to, memorised more. Some Gursiksh claims that Bhai Sahib knew all Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji from memory. It can be surely be said that Bhai Sahib could correct or know the Shabad being read during an Akhand Paath Sahib.

ਹਰਿ ਕੀ ਵਡਿਆਈ ਦੇਖਹੁ ਸੰਤਹੁ ਹਰਿ ਨਿਮਾਣਿਆ ਮਾਣੁ ਦੇਵਾਏ ॥

O Saints! Look and see the glorious greatness of the Lord! The Lord blesses the dishonored with honour.

(Soohee M:4, Ang 735)

Dedication to preaching Sikhi

Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji along with Bhai Rama Singh Ji, Bhai Jarnail Singh Ji (Leamington Spa), Bhai Sohan Singh Ji (Slough), Bhai Onkar Singh Ji (Leicester) and many other Singhs and Singhnis used to travel around the UK and abroad to do Seva of Amrit Sanchaars. During the holidays, people call others over for dinner or watch television, but Gursikhs dedicate themselves to Seva and Sangat. During these Seva tours, Bhai Jarnail Singh Ji would drive the whole night and do Naam Simran continuously. Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji and other Gursikhs would join Bhai Jarnail Singh Ji in doing Naam Simran. When they reached their destination, they would do a Rainsbaaee Kirtan (all-night continous singing of Gurbani) and preach to the Sangat to follow the Guru's teachings. They would say, "If you do not accept the Guru's Word (i.e. become Guru wale), then you will re-enter the cycle of birth and death." Bhai Sahib Ji stressed that taking Amrit alone is not enough and that keeping Rehat is compulsary. Bhai Sahib echoed Gurbani's teaching that without waking up Amrit-Vela and without doing Naam Simran one cannot call themselves a Sikh of the Guru, even if one has taken Amrit.

ਗੁਣਕਾਰੀ ਗੁਣ ਸੰਘਰੈ ਅਵਰਾ ਉਪਦੇਸੇਨਿ ॥
The virtuous accumulate virtue, and teach others. (Soohee M:3, Ang 755)

Panthic activism

Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji never forgot his promise to his comrades that he made in June 1984. Till his last breaths he showed concern for the future of the Sikh nation and was always ready to be of service in any way. Bhai Sahib was dedicated to fulfil his duty to rejuvenate the Khalsa Panth in the West through encouraging others to take Amrit, Jap Naam and become good Gursikhs. Bhai Sahib, without fail, attended every Shaheedi Conference. He strongly believed that Sikhs should never forget their Shaheeds (martyrs), whether they are from the past or modern history. Bhai Sahib would regularly attend the June freedom rally and 1984 remembrance march that would take place in London. Even in his old age, he would attend these events. Bhai Sahib would tell the Sangat to give Daswandh (one tenth of their earnings) for the betterment of the Panth that includes helping the families of Shaheeds. Bhai Sahib did not shy away in his support for Khalistan, an independent state for the Sikhs that he deemed necessary for becoming a global voice for Sikhs and protecting Sikhi from religious attacks. However, he believed this was part of the bigger picture for Khalsa Raaj, which would is beyond borders and boundaries and will see the glory of Akaal Purakh manifested through the Khalsa shine boldly across the whole world.

ਧਰਮ ਚਲਾਵਨ ਸੰਤ ਉਬਾਰਨ ॥ ਦੁਸਟ ਸਭਨ ਕੋ ਮੂਲ ਉਪਾਰਨ ॥੪੩॥ 
(I have been born) to spread Dharam, and protect the saints, and uproot tyrants and evil-minded persons.43.
(Bachitar Naatak P:10, DG p.134)

Gurdwara Singh Sabha Coventry

On 9th September 1998, the foundation was laid for a new Gurdwara, Gurdwara Singh Sabha, in Coventry, UK. The foundation was laid by Five Singhs which included, Bhai Raghbir Singh Ji, Bhai Jarnail Singh Ji (Leamington-Spa), Jathedaar Bhai Rama Singh Ji (Southall), Bhai Sohan Singh Ji (Slough) and Bhai Gurdev Singh Ji (Coventry). Giani Amolak Singh Ji also attended and gave his blessings for this new Gurdwara Sahib that would be dedicated to Gurmat and encouraging the youth towards Gurbani and Naam. This was one of the first Gurdwaras where Bhai Sahib and the rest of the Jatha Sangat contributed a large part of their time, money and energy. For the past 21 years, there have been regular Amrit-Velas, Smaagams, monthly Kirtan programmes, Amrit Sanchaars and youth camps at this Gurdwara. Bhai Sahib regularly attended the Amrit-Vela programme at Singh Sabha Gurdwara. He would wake up at 12am and do his personal Amrit-Vela from 12am to 2am. Then he would attend Gurdwara Singh Sabha Coventry from 2am to 4am for Naam Abhiaas (meditation on Naam).  When there were no other programmes, Bhai Sahib would attend the Sunday divaan at Gurdwara Singh Sabha Coventry. Sangat was everything for him. Although he had experienced a higher spiritual state, he still believed that it one's religious duty to attend the Sangat (congregation) in order to motivate and encourage others to step on the Guru's Path, rather than become a recluse.

ਸਤਸੰਗਤਿ ਮਿਲਿ ਹਰਿ ਸਾਦੁ ਆਇਆ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਬ੍ਰਹਮੁ ਪਛਾਤਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
One who joins the Sat Sangat, the True Congregation, and enjoys the divine-taste of the Lord, through the Guru they form a deep relationship with the Lord. ||1||Pause||
(Maalee Gauraa M:4, Ang 984)

Amrit-Vela  

Bhai Sahib would wake up 12am without fail and go to the bathroom to have his Amrit-vela ishnaan (body wash). The only arguments he has had with Mata Ji (his wife), has been over whose getting in the bathroom first at Amrit-Vela. If Mata Ji would get up first at 12am and go to the bathroom, Bhai Sahib would say, "It's my turn my first. How can you do have Ishnaan first? You know you turn is after me." Mata Ji would then sometimes go to do Ishnaan at 11.45pm, thinking Bhai Sahib would not realise, but he would would call out from the bedroom, "It's my turn first!" Bhai Sahib had so much love and enthusiasm for Amrit-Vela. For those who thought waking up Amrit-Vela is hard or tiring, Bhai Sahib's love and dedication for Amrit-Vela was uplifting and inspiring. In 2002, two young Singhs were travelling with Bhai Sahib to Pakistan from the UK for Yatra (religious pilgrimage). Bhai Sahib had a heavy cold and fever at the time. Due to the flight delays and changing airports, the journey from home to Gurdwara Panja Sahib (Hasan Abdal, Pakistan) took nearly 30 hours. The 2 Singhs were exhausted and worn out, and Bhai Sahib looked even worse. When arriving at Gurdwara Panja Sahib both Singhs were longing to have a rest and relax. At this point, Bhai Sahib asked for the time. The young Singhs replied, "11.30pm". Hearing this, Jathedaar Ji's eyes lit up and said, "Come, let's have a shower and then sit down together for Naam Abhiaas (practise of repeating the Lord's Name)." Once, Bhai Sahib asked a Singh, "Do you wake up Amrit-Vela?" He said, "I do usually, but not when I am ill." Bhai Sahib then smiled looking at the Singh (who was large in shape) and said, "Do you eat food, when you are ill?" The Singh said, "Yes." Bhai Sahib then said, "If you can forget not to eat when you are ill, then you shouldn't forget Amrit-Vela when you are ill!"

ਫਰੀਦਾ ਪਿਛਲ ਰਾਤਿ ਨ ਜਾਗਿਓਹਿ ਜੀਵਦੜੋ ਮੁਇਓਹਿ ॥
O Fareed! If you do not awaken at Amrit-vela (in the early hours before dawn), although you are alive (physically), you are (spiritually) dead.
(Salok Fareed Ji, Ang 1383)

Continued: Part 3